Saturday, July 19, 2025

Social Costuming and Personality Excess

 



My wife, a continuing observant of anthropology and human behavior in general, is a proponent of the idea that the clothing we wear serves as a costume by which we may manage the perspectives of others as they evaluate us.

As many readers may have discovered, I periodically sport my Sgt. Pepper jacket as an instrument by which I may gain attention. When wearing it, I am hard to miss. The jacket is bright, flashy-blue, and very quickly identified with the Beatles Sgt. Pepper album and persona associated with that album.

Originally purchased and tailored for a “50 Year Celebration” of the album, I have since worn it at many concerts and other events.

But my wife posits that all clothing is social costuming.

Much like choosing which jewelry to wear for the day, clothing is also a choice. In either case, there is consideration of how one wants to present themselves.

When attending a job interview, one may wear business formal attire so as to assert themselves as professional.

When attending a wedding one may take care that they do not “upstage” the bride and groom. This costuming effect is to characterize oneself as being socially discerning.

Yet another example of social costuming is the act of wearing clothing, such as t-shirts, that have messaging or logos printed on them. Such folk seem to want to be identified with a cause or movement.

I quickly acknowledge that there are circumstances in which people, due to lack of resources, or perhaps situation-specific influences, cannot wear what they might prefer. These situations include uniforms for work.

Yet still, some people will wear their work uniform outside of the work situation.

I assume they do so that I, and others will associate them with that work environment.

So, it does seem that my wife is correct, most, if not all, clothing is a social costume.

But please be relaxed, if you invite me to your wedding, I will not wear the Sgt. Pepper jacket. I will wear clothing that presents me as appropriately exuberant for your wedding day.

Neither will I wear my jacket to your Christmas Party, church meeting, or baptism.

It just seems that ecclesiastical circumstances are not the appropriate venue for personality excess.

But concerts, festivals, social situations in which personality excess is not only permitted but encouraged, yeah, you can expect the jacket.

Now, if only I could fit into it as I did when I first received it!